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My ever changing world !!!


My brother had a tough job and for many years I didn't understand how he dealt with the overwhelming demand of being the oldest. I found out one day when he abused me Its a hard fact to have to admit!!! Its something that I haven't been able to talk about for years.


My brother died one January day when I was 14 and I was blown away my once very by the book life  started to change. I was upset that he past away but for some reason I couldn't cry!!! my parents never forgave me for that!!!

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